I was looking for this quote for a long time

Fortunately, morreth reposted it in her FB:

Sometimes people use "respect" to mean "treating someone like a person" and sometimes they use "respect" to mean "treating someone like an authority".

And sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say "if you won't respect me I won't respect you" and they mean "if you won't treat me like an authority I won't treat you like a person"

And they think the're being fair but they aren't, and it's not okay.